It's hard having a brother with Aspberger's Syndrom because sometimes he yells when he's mad and gets very upset very easily and I don't always understand why.Sometimes I feel like I don't get enough attention because he needs so much. I know my parents love me and I love my brother and my sister but sometimes I wish I was an only child. Mom says alot of kids feel that way and she says that God knew I'd be a great brother to someone who is special like my brother. It would be nice if he didn't embarrass me sometimes though. I have to have alot of patience and that's hard. But I do a good job of reminding him not to eat things that could make him sick. Sometimes I feel like the older brother even though I'm not.
This was hard to listen to as I was typing it. I understand how he feels and wish he felt differently but he does a remarkable job at dealing with the daily stresses of being the sibling of a brother with AS. I am blessed to have a son who is gifted with so much love in his young heart.
Very touching. I read Nathan's post and then, just now Marcus's and I am so impressed by their ability to express themselves in such a mature, grown-up manner. I am so touched by both of their responses. I have taught special education and I have seen and experienced what your boys are describing and I really am connecting with their stories.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing. You all are so brave to be so open and honest, it's not easy.
Good for you guys. :)